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The room full of flowers and pain
I used to think that working with sexuality would be fun, joyful, exciting — a constant pleasure ride. I imagined myself as that kind of...
Mayda Reyes
Aug 38 min read
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The Longing I Wasn’t Allowed
This blog is about the raw, messy truth behind heartbreak—the kind of pain that self-love mantras can’t fix. It’s a refusal to settle for shallow advice from therapists who don’t see the depth of yearning. It’s about demanding space for real human suffering, for longing that isn’t shameful, and for the simple truth: sometimes, we just want to be loved back.
Mayda Reyes
Jul 117 min read
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Needs and the End of Love
We’ve spiritualized it, monetized it, optimized it. Love has become a job description — and yet we’re lonelier than ever. This isn’t a post about dating. It’s a prayer. A reckoning. A slow goodbye to something we still long for.
Mayda Reyes
Jun 288 min read
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LinkedIn, Healing, and the Magic of Unexpected Connections
In this blog, I explore the unexpected ways real human connection and healing can emerge from unlikely places—like LinkedIn. Through a personal story of shifting careers, embracing vulnerability, and saying yes to serendipity, I reveal how tenderness, kindness, and openness can transform our lives beyond the digital noise and social expectations.
Mayda Reyes
Jun 199 min read
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Exiled
In this blog, I share my journey through Tantra — the raw, unfiltered kind that doesn’t sell on Instagram. I walk alongside the misfits, the unlabeled, the ones kicked out of the village. We drop the glitter, question the system, and remember: we don’t have to be perfect to be loved. This is a story about love, exile, and belongings.
Mayda Reyes
Jun 139 min read
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Notes from the Other Side of Pride
I had just gone through one of the most painful breakups of my life. I was really in love and the circumstances were brutal. Out of...
Mayda Reyes
Jun 107 min read
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Love Beyond Forever and the Tyranny of KPIs
It’s very rare that I hang out with my friends from my corporate era . When we do meet it feels like we live in alternate universes—one...
Mayda Reyes
May 297 min read
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Cults, Murders, and the Horrors of Love: The Dark Truth About Attachment Styles
This piece is my raw unpacking of heartbreak, culture, and love’s darkest corners. After loss and pain, I binged cults, killers, and love stories—only to find modern relationships scarier than either. What we call attachment issues? Maybe they’re just survival in a world that treats love like a transaction. This isn’t about you or me — it’s the system. It’s time to rethink love and start a revolution rooted in real connection.
Mayda Reyes
May 225 min read
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The End of an Era (And the Woman I Thought I Had to Be)
This blog is my love letter to the beautiful, messy, sometimes brutal journey of love and endings. A space to unravel the myths around intimacy—not from a place of perfection, but of presence. After years of breaking open, teaching tantra, and beginning again, I write for those who are longing, healing, feeling too much, or not enough. It’s raw, tender, and wildly human—just like love itself. Welcome to the unraveling.
Mayda Reyes
May 227 min read
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