attachment styles theories

We’ve spiritualized it, monetized it, optimized it. Love has become a job description — and yet we’re lonelier than ever. This isn’t a post about dating. It’s a prayer. A reckoning. A slow goodbye to something we still long for.

This piece is my raw unpacking of heartbreak, culture, and love’s darkest corners. After loss and pain, I binged cults, killers, and love stories—only to find modern relationships scarier than either. What we call attachment issues? Maybe they’re just survival in a world that treats love like a transaction. This isn’t about you or me — it’s the system. It’s time to rethink love and start a revolution rooted in real connection.